Hey dolls!
Long time no see. : )
I know haven't been on the scene regularly but I'm still around. Just been partying, traveling, and enjoying the New Year so far. I can't be out gettin it AND on here blogging about it everyday. lol. I'm trying to make it happen. xD
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AccentDaddy
Accentdaddy was very, very good to me this Christmas.
He's super thoughtful AND he sent gifts for my sis n bff bc I "talk about them so much". ; )
He is a very lonely and sensitive guy
[I would post the card and very personalized but cute gifts he sent but I dont wanna blow my cover],
total sweetheart tho
He's a team player. #1 on my roster.
Jake
Big Spender but I hate partying with him.
Why?
He does not know when to sit the fuck down!!!
I cannot drink AND enjoy my night bc I have to look out for both of us.
Long story short...we spent NYE weekend together at Green Valley Ranch outside the LV strip. I had a blast at the countdown party, then the next thing I know I had to help him back upstairs. He started crying on me this time...like real tears. He had a big nasty cry. He went on and on about how God hates him and the world is going to end. I really wish he would get help with his alcoholism. Despite his antics it was a nice short n sweet getaway.
Anyway, I just wanted to finish up my post about
SUGAR SAFETY.
What do you do when a nice pot or daddy turns into a creep and start blowing up your cell / inbox or FB?
What do you do when his wife is a crazy stalker and wants to kick your ass?
I have never been in a sketch situation[thank god], but I have had a pot "find" me online. I heard a lot of horror stories about stalkers and other shady bs from men. Last year, the ex boyfriend of an associate of mine blasted lewd photos of her to her work email contacts and got her fired. I think the embarrassment and humiliation is worse than being fired.
I have more tips to help protect yourself and create a wall between your "SB life" and your "REAL life".
- I'll say it b4 and i'll say it again....GET RID OF FACEBOOK. esp. if you are under your govt name. If you are private and unsearchable you can still be "found" on your family's friend list. People look through all the friends lists to dig for more info. TRUST.
- Create an alias name close to your real name. Something "normal". ex. Melissa Stephens=Marissa Stevenson. *wink I call it a DBA name. DOING BUSINESS AS.
- Never give out your personal email or any email linked to something else like a .edu account
- Get google voice
- Never link pics/vids from an acct in your real name. Twitter, yfrog, photobucket accts. An easy but very costly mistake. Be careful with checked in or 4square or whatev.
Now as far as a stalker in real life.
Do not waste any more time!! Get off the computer.
- Call the cops
- File a report
- Get a restraining order ASAP.
- Change and block your numbers.
If the situation is really out of hand, lay low for a while with a trusted friend or family member.
Until next time....
xoxo
mocha
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