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Hey Sweeties!

Miss me?

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I've been super busy looking for a good nursing program to transfer into. I really need to focus on my career so I can marry a specialist or surgeon.

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I'm thinking about deleting my personal FB page entirely and making an alias page for sugar only.

Why?

I almost got caught up.

A nosy pot sent me a friend request [ he knows my gov't name]. The crazy thing is that my page is private, I'm not in the search engine or anything...but I have a very unique last name and he found me through a family members page.

I added him then he complained bc he couldn't see my wall.

*side eye*

SB Tip

Make your FB page private.

If you really want to remain anon--- Do not attatch your personal email and/or govt name to ANY accounts.

POTS and SD's def. snoop around.

Sugar Updates

I FINALLY have an arrangement!!!

Accentdaddy?!

He wants cam and chat sessions.

I originally turned down his offer bc of my schedule and the time zone difference. He's across the pond.

$$$$ every week plus gifts. Sweet deal. He's vanilla but slightly kinky...so far... foot and lingerie fetish. Not bad for a few hrs a week w NO physical contact.

Jake.

Gift Daddy??

I decided to spend the day w him so I let my bff and sis know for safety precautions. Jake was sooo happy 2 c me. I blew him a kiss bc of his germs. lol He's still recovering from the flu. He scooped me up and kissed me all over my face. *yuck*

He looked like shit---his nose was red from blowing it.

JUST A MESS.

Def not the tough guy I was used to lol. It's funny bc he so badass...tats, biker, former marine. HE was like a helpless dog tht day.

He was super chatty despite his uncontrollable sneezing.

I made him hot tea w lemon / honey...then I took a tour of his house...he showed it off on skype b4 but it's HUGE IRL. 6 bedroom 5 bath boat dock, full basketball court, outdoor patio, 2 harleys, and a kennel.

No food in the fridge. He apologized and ordered takeout. We watched bad teacher [it's about a SUGARBABY / "schoolteacher" trying to hustle for new tits.] The movie was so fucking HILARIOUS I almost choked on my food.

Jake fell asleep with his head in my lap. I left a cute note and took off shortly after. I arrived back in the city and to my surprise I found some $$$$ in my purse. He must have put it in there while I was looking around his crib. To end the night, I sent a him a sexy pic while I was in the bubble bath.

He's a good catch--- about to retire soon and he casually mentioned he's looking for someone to spend even MORE time with.

I could handle that. *wink.

The problem is-----He said he's not looking for a "sugar baby" he wants a companion instead.

He explained tht he didn't care for the whole SB/SD dynamic bc SB is the new term for Escort and he's not a john. LMAO.

He said he wants someone he could trust and someone to share his life with. awwwww. He said he enjoyed spending time with me and I make him feel young again. He said he missed "those carefree days".

Whatev.

Call it what you want, Mr Officer.

xoxo

Mocha

[brownsugarbaby]

Unfulfilled

I'm trying to keep the car a secret.

I'm an adult but my parents and friends are the type to investigate and cross examine everything. At home, I have a drive way but I can't pull up and park Jake's car like everything is sweet. Pun intended. ; p

Sooooo...I park my car and switch on the street near my bff n sis's apartment. I told my other sis Jake's car was a Labor Day rental. Idk...it's a job within itself to hide everything and cover my tracks.

How can I focus on the $$$$$ when I have to sneak around nosy friends and family?

*sigh*

I realllllyyyyy like my kickboxing class. I will be in FAB shape for vacay season. It' s mostly soccer moms in my class and maybe two other girls around my age. The icing on the cake is A bunch of aggressive amateur fighters are there training too. It's like a spartan army in the gym.

One guy caught my eye...I could feel him watching me but I never return the stare.

He is fuckin shredded....not overly ripped or disproportionate like the old WWF guys or roided out juiceheads...he is cut all over. Just how I like it. The bod is a TEN. HOT body. Not so hot face.... but we can't have it all. Can we ? lol

Sugar Updates

Accentpot

I met him a few weeks ago while on a date w Jake.

He's frm Scotland. Professor. Married. Late 50's. We had a nice skype chat. ..he was a stranger but it felt like we knew each other forever. His voice is soooo sexy and deep. Scottish accents are the shit. The crazy thing is he loves MY country American accent. He wanted me to say certain words and phrases and he would lol. He was clearly amused. He asked about the guy I was with in the steakhouse when we first met.

*sigh*

I let it all out I was open about everything----college life and my sugar life. And Jake.

He asked were my needs being met.

Yep. *smile*

Sexually.

NO.

My relationship w Jake is not based on sex.

Sex is a non issue.

I never discuss my sex life w anyone except my bff and gyn. Accentpot said everything he needed to know was written all over my face. He said I was clearly frustrated and stressed. He said I was unfulfilled. To my surprise he read me like a book.

He constantly compared himself with Jake. I swear the male ego is a bitch.

Anyway, one thing led to another, he started the dirty talk.

He wanted to see if he could make me cum without touching me. I played along until I saw his dick. Surprisingly, It was a nice size, thick and uncut. <>I let him know in a joking but serious as hell manner ....I wasn't a cam girl and if he wanted a show to hit up my paypal account. I logged off immediately. Later that day/ his night I got a txt from paypal and Accentpot.

He sent the $$$$ but I was NOT about to let him record a vid. NO WAY! Anyway, I turned OFF my CAMERA turned up my mic, stripped and got in my bed. I was originally going to fake it but hell I deserve some fun too.

Suddenly he had complete control as he coached me along.

“Just relax. Close your eyes, Use your hands, imagine it is me. Touch yourself now and imagine that I am with you.”

I nodded, even though he couldn’t see me.

He continued, “You’re laying naked in bed, getting ready to go to sleep. I’m coming out of the bathroom after a hot shower. I drop the towel around my waist, and walk towards you lying on the bed. I climb up on the bed with you and trail my fingers on your skin - from your neck, down your stomach, and along the inside of your thighs.”

I closed my eyes and slowly ran my fingertips along my torso. They danced gracefully across my bare skin, hardly making contact but when they did they sent electric sensations throughout my body. I moved my left hand along the flat plane of my stomach, as my right hand pinched my nipples and moved further down south.I spread my legs and teased my fingers along my slit. At first, I was just bullshitting around but after awhile I was completely turned on.

He continued...

“I move my lips along your jaw line, gently sucking and kissing…I move lower and lower…and dip my fingers into you.”

It surprised me, how real it felt. Like he was so close yet so far away.

“That sweet tight cunt...You are so wet and warm. Aren't u?", he slurred.

His words and voice got to me, as I teased myself, thumbing my clit. My skin was flushed and within minutes I was covered in a light sheen of sweat.

I couldn't say anything i just moaned as I worked my fingers over my clit.

"Fuck. You sound so good.Go faster for me baby. Back and forth. Up and down. Cum on my cock. ” he ordered.

I followed his instructions to a tee.

Soon enough I felt the bed sheet getting damp and I wondered how much more I could take.

I was softly moaning and my breath shortened.

I was about to cum.

In no time my body was reeling, pulsing, arching, moving desperately to ride this wave.

"Oh my god" I moaned breathlessly.

"That's it. Don't stop. Let it happen." He demanded.

I had no choice but to submit to him. I lost control of myself.
I tried desperately to hold it in but I screamed out in intense pleasure.

He said something to me but I couldn't hear him.

I was out of it... took a sec for me to recover.

He laughed lowly, and asked if I was ok. Embarrassed, I told him I'll ttyl. He emailed me the next day and said he wanted to meet up in NYC in Nov. I told him I'll check my schedule and get back. He said we will talk same time next week.

Maybe...$$$$ Talks.

Accentpot is such a naughty, generous boy.

His big cock is a nice bonus too.

A quickie orgasm def. did my body right.
I had the best sleep ever but I felt like something was still missing.

I want more.

xoxo

BrownSugar.

Money can't buy class.

My sis and bff [both SB's ] introduced me to the lifestyle. My sis is not on the scene like tht anymore, she's not on the prowl [ for now] *wink*

but my BFF....

We are like batman and robin. No cattiness/ no bs.

Drama?

U bet your ass.

Sometimes trouble finds us...

We got into a lil squabble w a self entitled jackass at a bar after the game.

He sent us drinks and being the friendly ppl we are, we invited him to join us in our booth. We love male company esp. since He kept our glasses and plates full throughout the evening. We were all having a good time. The convo was flowing and he discovered my bff was meeting her SD later ...of course the guy was intrigued. He was a random stranger so she didn't mind discussing her business. He asked about their arrangement. Then asked us to join him in his hotel room for more drinks.

We politely declined. It wasn't tht type of party. We are not escorts so nothing was happening.

He asked again.

We ignored him with silence.

He put 500 measly dollars on the table.

He was like what do say ladies? How about that? I have money.

We were like

Random guy's ego was beyond bruised so he did exactly what typical bitch ass men do.

Cause a scene.

He yelled our business throughout the bar. Everyone thought we were escorts.

He ranted and raved non stop. Thank God we got the hell outta there before anything happened.

Sugar babies and "the moral police" DO NOT mix. Unfortunately, I usually run into the latter. But I bet my last dollar... if they had the "look" or "skills" he/she would do the same.

*SMH*

They just don't understand.

It's not women who give me a hard time....it's mostly MEN.

Basic men to look out for!!!!

1. Broke Bastard

Broke bastards are harder to detect. Some are actually wealthy and other Broke Bastards PRETEND to come from a certain pedigree. It's a lot of SCAM ARTISTS out there too. You are bound to run into this type...irl or online.

I know exactly what u r thinking---well if he's rich how is he broke???

He's broke bc he's not spending his hard earned money. He's not giving it to YOU, Sugar Baby... so he might as well be broke. They [Broke Bastards] want to fuck but don't have anything to offer. Broke bastard can only keep the charade up for so long.

I was "hot" b4 I asked for $$$$.

Really ?

2. Self Entitled Jackass

Self Entitled Jackass is the WORST.

Attractive. Multi Millionaire. Successful. Well educated.

Problem is his stank attitude.

His mindset is warped. He thinks the universe is HIS and will treat you like you work for HIM. His attitude is like----- *opens hermes wallet* what color is my amex again? Black. So fuck you... the world is flat bc I say it is.

REALLY?

Run away bc after a few days with him you are going to want to commit suicide or pop a few pills to get over it. The $$$$ is soooo not worth the trouble.

TRUST.

SUGAR Updates

• My POT Jake was in the hospital. I didn't visit or call bc his family was around 24/7 [I gotta stay under the radar]. Sooo me being a sweet brown sugar baby ...I had an anon gift basket delivered. He was surprised I thought about him.
• I joined a kickboxing class. 3 days a week 2 hours. It's kicking my ass. For Real.
• I contacted Accentpot. Took him 2 days to return an email. After a few back n forth messages, we have a skype date tomorrow.
• Found a new POT. I dnt have a name 4 him yet. *blushes*

All she cares about is money and the city where she's from

Her intention is the paper, she don't need no fucking love

xoxo

BrownSugar.

VI.

Summer in the city is officially over.

*sadface*

Did I achieve my summer 2011 goals???

Did I save any $$$$?

My answer is a confident 'YES' to both questions.

I have no time for excuses or failures. Thx to the SB life my motivation/ambition went from a 6 to 10. I want more for myself. I'm tired of wasting my energy w stingy guys and waiting for Prince Charming to pop up. That shit is for the birds...it's called fairy tale for a reason.

I'm on the go.

SD/POT UPDATES

Jake.

I had one hell of a wknd.

We spent Thurs. morning shopping for his 12 y/o nephew. He purchased dr. dre headphones and a ipod. I didn't ask for anything at the mall. A few items caught my eye but I had to discipline myself...It was soooo hard to ignore the FAB fall fashions.

My mouth was watering at the clothes... but I had bigger fish to fry.

I wanted Jake to trust me. 100 Percent.

He finally asked "Babe, do u see anything u like? ---- *grrr* he finally said the magic words after 3 hours of aimless wandering and parading around.

WTF?!

I was famished, my feet were killing me. I was ready to go... I put my hand on his thigh. I told him I didn't see anything then I asked him to spend the rest of the day with ME. I didn't tell him what I had in mind, I told him it's a surprise. He started asking a million questions.

Anyway, I took him to the waffle house, and open mic in the hipster/artsy part of town----lol a far cry frm his boring, safe suburb and 5 star restaurants. lol I was happy he was finally able to relax and let his hair down and get his mind off of bs for ONCE. We went back to my apt, I freshened up and turned on a dvd while he waited for me to change. I left my bedroom door open and I caught him watching me undress. I matched his gaze and continued stripping to my panties and bra like it was nothing. Jake had the 'look' in his eyes. I'm not trying to fck him. Thank God my sis and bff arrived right on time b4 anything happened.

I introduced him to everyone, we took shots and ended the night at a reggae club. We had a BLAST. We def. got side eyes and crazy comments frm ppl. I know they were wondering why this old ass white man was surrounded by not one, but THREE beautiful hot girls. Jake was uptight but after a few drinks he was all over the place. My sis and bff took turns dancing w him. It was cute cuz he wasn't embarrassed at ALL. We were doing the dutty wine all over him. He couldn't keep up. lol

He drank an entire bottle of malibu by himself. He was soooo drunk, like beyond wasted. I had to drive him back home almost two hours away. He vomited in his car and peed on himself. I was like WTF?! My bff would not stop laughing and playing w him. I was mortified.

We had to drag him in the house, clean him up and tuck him in. He passed out in no time. I couldn't spend the night or wait until he sobered up... I had class in the afternoon. I had no choice but to drive his smelly car back home.

He called later with no memory of what happened.

He thanked me for being sooo sweet bc 'I could have put him in a cab' or 'left him on the curb to die'. He gave me a sephora e-giftcard, $1000 in my paypal AND he agreed to put new tires on my car.

SB TIP

Try to make it smooth as possible for your SD/ POT to send you $$$$.

He should not have to jump through hoops.

Get a re loadable giftcard or a paypal account. Get a national bank account like US Bank.

I have all three. ; )

If none of these work for u... try good old fashioned moneygram or western union. He does not have to know your govt name, or personal info [unless it is a trusted legit SD] all u need is the acct number.

I told Jake I went to get his car detailed and I would return it after class, he told me to hold on to it until 'whenever'.

WTF is 'whenever'?!

Anyway.

I was ecstatic. He spent Labor Day wknd w his fam and I went on a road trip to visit my other sis 4 hours away. I'm riding all over town in his "luxury" gas guzzler. The 90$ plus fill up is killing me. : P

Jake knows how much I care about the environment....my next goal is to convince him to trade it in and go "green". * wink*

xoxo

BrownSugar.

Like Attracts Like

It is possible to find an SD online but it’s taking a bit longer than I expected.
The majority of my POTS want too much for too little so I’m weeding them out left and right. I want 3 SD’s and 2 back up POTS [Just in case]. My goal is to save at least $2500 a month. I'm trying to seal the deal with one POT right now.




Jake.
My last ten incoming txts are from Jake. lol. I'm a psych major but I swear I feel like his personal therapist . He complains about his job and druggie kid non stop. I try to play Positive Patty by cheering him up and lending a shoulder for him to cry/vent on but it's too much. He's about to retire soon, but despite his complaining, time spent with Jake is always an adventure. I swear cops are CRAZY....You think you are safe with police. LOL. YEAH RIGHT.... but that's another post.

Anyway, I had my first Churrascaria experience. BEST FOOD EVER. I didn't want to look like a pig so I kept my plate light. I saw 3 other SB couples in the restaurant. Mostly fug guys and young Asian girls. Thank God Jake is easy on the eyes and fuckable. I was the only young black girl in the building...eyes were def. on me. One guy kept giving me the look all night long, like I was a piece of meat. Jake's back was toward him so he couldn't see what was going on but I didn't miss a thing.




I went downstairs to the bathroom and random dude caught me coming out. He came out of nowhere with a strong accent. He said something cheesy like: Do I know you from somewhere?, your eyes are stunning and I just had to meet you. LOL. He def. caught me off balance. He pulled out his phone to take my number. I told him to put the phone away and give me your card. Nothing tackier than standing around punching in numbers. Everybody knows what your are doing.I kept looking around for Jake. lol. I went back to dinner like nothing happened. I swear white guys are BOLD with their shit and I think dude had a date/wife with him.

^^ACCENTPOT

Have you ever been approached by a another guy while you were out on a date w/ a POT or SD?

How did you handle it?

I’m having better luck going out free styling instead of online. Free styling, in my humble opinion is all about POSITIONING yourself in the right places at the right time. There is no right or wrong way to freestyle….do what works for you.

I want to share a few of MY tried and proven tips.

1. Have lunch ALONE in the financial district of your city.

Bring your laptop or a good book. No self help or silly fiction [twilight, hunger games].

Enjoy happy hour @ an upscale hotel bar. E.g. W, intercontinental, etc. Have only ONE drink. Do not get drunk...u are not out on the town.

Hit up a nice sports bar on game night---arrive early w/ 1 or 2 gf’s. Invest in a pack of business cards.

Other places to look for POTS ---museums, casinos, boat shows, car shows, rare bookstores, join a campaign and volunteer.

NOTE: Some of the places are boring but you are not there to have fun….you are working. *wink*

2. Dress the part.

Clean, fresh face makeup and simple hair.
I usually wear a sexy, conservative, outfit with an edge. The key is to stand out amongst the crowd.

Example:

^^ Add FAB accessories, shoes, and handbag.

^^ Kim's look is FAB. Find something similar but not TOOOO overboard. You don't wanna look like a clone.

^^^^ BIG NO NO

Please leave the club wear at home. Guys will notice but they won‘t take you serious…

Unless you are trying to “toot”. lol. : p

3. The best days to freestyle are TUES- THURS.

While you are out act like you are having a good day, smile, LOOK APPROCAHBLE and FRIENDLY. I don't walk around the city w a big goofy grin on my face, a lot of guys tell me to smile…but they use that as an opener. The smiley thing might work w u or against u...just don't look like a psycho btch....smiling or not. ; )

4. Weekends are “OFF” days.

This is an open secret.
I never check for POTS on the weekend anymore. Weekends are usually couples/ families out and about. The streets are also full of riff raff and “regular“people….esp. the Just Got Paid It’s Friday Night crowd. You want to avoid the fakes and 30k millionaires at all cost.

Keep it MOVING.


I’m usually having ME time and recuperating on the weekend.

It’s mandatory for a SB to be in tip top shape so I devote at least 4 hours to maintaining my body every weekend.



FYI-- Save YOUR $$$$$ let him pay for the expensive ass spa treatments.

Here are a few DIY methods I swear by to help maintain my sexy.









^^Me no like hard wax... so yeah.

You never know if HE might call for an impromptu date…

it would be a SHAME and [ costly ] if you are not prepared.

XOXO
Brownsugar.

Trying to make it happen

I started fall semester.
I'm taking two on campus classes and 7 non credit online classes. I'm soooo behind in the online classes. I'm a HOT mess.
It's HARD work trying to keep up with school, a square job and the SB lifestyle.

*sigh*

Moving along.....

I met a new POT.





Jake.
He pulled me over and wrote a seatbelt ticket but gave me the wrong copy. He showed up at my house later that night w the "correct copy" and his card "in case I needed anything".

I ran his name through Google. He's legit. Cute. He looks menacing one moment and warm/welcoming the next.
Divorced. Gambler. Bossy...IDK how this is gonna work out bc I have a major problem w/ authority and I had to politely check him twice for trying to tell me what to do. I made it clear that I wanted a sugar DADDY, not another FATHER. His entire attitude changed after that.

I get the feeling he might be a sub... and I'm usually right about people.

I decided I needed a little bit of help w my "tuition".

We met up at the race track a few days ago, I never asked him for anything and he never gave me anything besides footing the bill for our expensive dates and gassing up my car. The last thing I do was to come off as a beggar or “gold digger“. He was watching the race and I sat down next to him. I was soooo nervous bc we never discussed an arrangement. IDK if he was actually in the market for a SB.

Would he curse me out?

Or

Walk away and leave me standing alone?

All these thoughts ran rampant through my mind.

He knew something was up but I couldn't tell him what I really wanted. I choked.

We had a good time gambling, we hugged and went our separate ways.




He txted me soon as I got in the house. .We talked about the date. And I stroked his already inflated ego.
He said he wanted to catch the midnight screening of Conan. I told him I couldn't go. He was devastated, I told him I would love to spend more time w/ him but I had to focus on getting my tuition fees together.

He actually called this time and asked how much did I need. I told him it didn't matter and it wasn't his problem. I said I had to go and hung up in his ear.
He called right back and volunteered to help me.

I aimed low and said I needed $1000 dollars. I was hesitant bc I didn't know how he would react. It was quiet on his end...he said "That's all?" He told me he knew something was wrong bc I wasn't my usual "bubbly, cheeky self". He told me not to worry and I should not be afraid 2 say what’s on my mind. He was happy to help me out.




Twenty minutes later the money was in my account. I thanked him and took a bubble bath.

The next morning, I caught an HP touchpad on sale for $150. I originally wanted an ipad2 but screw that... Iphone5 is coming out in October. I spent the day running errands. I ordered two textbooks for class, and ended the night w my sis, bff and a few drinks.

Our nxt date is in a few days...can't wait.




xoxo
BrownSugar.

Not Your Average SD

I was looking through my old photo albums and I started to feel a little sentimental.
I came across the pics of my first sugar daddy.

Soooo....

When you think about the average Sugar daddy ...what picture comes to mind?














Old ass man
gray hair
with lots of cash.



WRONG!


I had my first taste of "sugar" back in High School. I met M when I was 16 and he was 17. His best friend, D, actually had a crush on me, but I wanted M. I think they actually had a fight about me. M would never admit it but I knew I ruined their bromance. M was sexy to me, chocolate skin, bedroom eyes, nice body, white teeth. I couldn't help it. He had a lot of sex partners, but not a serious, committed relationship. M slowly became my best friend / silent partner.






I never told anyone about him ---I liked my privacy. We didn't go to the prom together. He had his date and I had mine. Deep down, I hated that he slept with other girls. We were not officially together so I couldn't say anything. Nothing sexual ever happened between us and he never tried anything with me. At one point I thought he was gay... I would say and do little slick things around him like casually walk around in my bra and panties, ask him to help lotion my back...cheap tricks like that. He never fell for it.





M was very good to me. He hooked me up with my very first job, he helped purchase my first car [ Pontiac Sunfire ] --- LOL. He bought my first piece of jewelry [nameplate and diamond heart necklace] for xmas. I even had a Best Buy and Victoria Secret credit card in his name. He wasn't filthy rich but he always made sure I was taken care of. He was a spoiled kid--only child, upper middle class family. He never asked for anything in return---- except my time.





Moral of the story

It's not about how much money a guy has...it's about how GENEROUS he is. I know Doctors and Lawyers who live lavish but are cheap as hell and on top of that stingy. A POT could have a billion dollar net worth and make a sb empty promises about money.

Remember Actions ALWAYS speak louder than words.

xoxo
Brownsugar




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