Sugar Safety On and Off "The Field" Part 1

Hey Dolls!!!

I am officially on holiday!!!

I had to put the sugar bowl and my "dating" life on hold but now I'm back in the game. After a week of preparing and studying for final exams, I am ready to unwind. My agenda and to-do list is super full these next two weeks....

I'm Ready to Party

While preparing for a night out on the town, SB's always worry about our dresses and makeup...we never worry about the unexpected...our inhibitions are lower, esp in a different environment...ex. Vegas weekend or a swanky boutique hotel.


How you decide to celebrate the holiday is your business but I want everyone to remain safe on and off "the field". I always hear bad news toward the end of the year. This is the time for alcohol and rowdy ass people and the unexpected.

When I say "the unexpected", I don't mean unexpected like a random argument with your SD or BFF...I mean something really unexpected like robbery, date rape, or any other attack.

Just bc you are partying at an exclusive spot or at Daddy's villa.... Don't think you are above bullshit and untouchable. The GLOBAL economy is fucked up and ppl are acting CRAZY and super DESPERATE.

Young aloof women are easy targets.

Here are some things that SB's can do to keep safe while enjoying the night.

Sugar Safety Tips

• Go for comfortable chic vs. super sexy. If your platform stilletos hurt. Leave em at home. You never know if you have to walk a long distance or run from a bad situation.

• Use the buddy system. Never abandon your friends or leave them in a dangerous situation...don't go off with a random guy or let friends leave with someone they don't know...esp. if they are drinking. I lost a few friends bc they abandoned me and left me without a ride. Yes...we are all adults but a real friend would never leave another friend stranded. I learned my lesson.

• Always have a designated driver or ask the bartender/ conceiger to call u a cab. No explanation needed. I never, ever get shit faced at the club. I always get fucked up at home with trusted friends. Never in public. I don't wanna be that girl.

• Never talk/ text after exiting your car. Nasty habit and a major distraction. While tweeting or chatting away someone can quickly approach from behind. Stay Alert.

• Never stand outside the club or any event after it closes. I never stay till the very end of a party. However if u must stay...smart ppl leave at least 15 min early to get your car from valet and beat the rush. Only losers hang around outside the club trying to see, be seen and"pick up" or get "picked up".

• Never accept a drink from ANYBODY. Unless you watch the bartender make it.

• Always try to have a trusted male escort during the late hours of the night. Walking to car, walking to hotel, waiting for cab, etc.

• My mother told me a woman should ALWAYS carry protection. I'm not talking about condoms: p This is where you have to get creative...and think of something simple that will not get confiscated at the door. This is really ghetto but it works.... : p I use a travel size bath and body works perfume bottle filled with bleach. For some reason, bases are worse than acids. You can spray it in someones eyes and run like hell.... A disposible ink pen can cause major damage if used correctly.

The game is so much more than an allowance and your latest trinket.

Protect yourself. You are your best asset.

<3

More soon.

xoxo

[Mocha]